Hasn’t porn been around forever?

Great question

Yes, yes it has.  But not porn like what we have today.

I want you to have this background because chances are, your kids may make exactly this argument.  They have a natural healthy drive, time to do a little research, and they’ll argue you into a corner to get what they want.

If we define pornography as art that is meant to arouse, then yes, people have made erotic art since cave-man days. 

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Help! My kid Googled “porn”!

I hear this all the time.  It is SO common for kids to google “porn” or “naked girls” or “penis”.  They want to see what’s out there.  That curiosity is normal and healthy.

The results that pop up from a search like that, however, are NOT.

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Anything is better than nothing

When I was a teen I used to sneak out of the house. Well, I thought I was sneaking. Turns out, my parents knew. Whenever I slipped out, the bells hanging on the door chimed. They heard those bells and knew exactly what was happening.

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The Solution! The Third Talk™

The Solution! The Third Talk™

“Never in the history of mankind has this amount of pornography, in such a hardcore medium, been so available to anyone at any age…”

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The Third Talk™ on ABC 13 News

The Third Talk™ Founder, John Van Arnam, was on ABC 13 News with Lauren Brigman.

Founder, John Van Arnam, spoke with WLOS Channel 13’s Lauren Brigman about the harms of online content for young people.

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Boy & Mom Followup Conversation after The Third Talk™ Consultation

After a The Third Talk™ meeting with John Van Arnam, as a family, the son and the Mom agreed to come in and speak about their experience.

In a relaxed setting, Mother and son talk about not only how their private consultation with John went, but what happened afterwards. This video is designed to help kids and their parents understand how important and easy this conversation can be.

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Can we laugh about Online pornography?

Can we laugh about Online pornography? We can!

Personable and without colorful language, John Van Arnam has been speaking about the harms of adult content with parents and their children for years. His style is practical and put everyone at ease.

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